SEXUAL FANTASIES WOMEN OFTEN HAVE

People dream about many things: for example, an incredible vacation or a huge life-changing job. And who knows? One day you can make those dreams come true. But when it comes to sexual fantasies, not every scenario should play out in the real world.

More women fantasize about sex than you might think. In fact, more than you may think. And what they are fantasizing about may surprise you. Even the most pristine, most mundane, most G-rated female you know is not always who she appears to be. The truth is, women are having some very naughty thoughts. And they are having them right in front of you, across the conference table, or right next to you.

Role playing and experimentation in the bedroom can be a healthy practice for couples; however, some fantasies may be more challenging to discuss with one's partner than others, including those that involve group sex or engaging in sexual activity with another person. It is important to note that fantasizing about oral sex with a friendly barista does not necessarily indicate a desire to deceive or an emotional state of affairs.

Sexual fantasies don't always translate into reality. For instance, while a majority of women reported fantasizing about being sexually dominated, half of them specifically said they wouldn't want to experience their sexual submission fantasies.

Every woman on the planet has at some point had an explicit sexual fantasy. Maybe she was too embarrassed to tell you about it. Whether it's your friend or your wife this list is bound to touch on some forbidden fantasy of hers. While most women like to keep their fantasies to themselves, some have a list they're working on slowly but surely. So next time your wife looks like she's lost in thought, she might be floating somewhere in the realm of sexual fantasy.

Sex is a complex subject. Even the sexiest people in the world can feel perplexed and confused when they think about the sexual fantasies they have in their minds. It's easy to think that your fantasies are wrong, but it's actually okay to have them. Studies have shown that people who have sex fantasies feel less anxious and more confident. It's totally normal to fantasize about sex, and it can even add something special to your relationship. Just remember to talk to your partner about it and make sure you're following all the laws about sex and nudity.

Below you will find examples of some of the most common fantasies people experience.

Having a threesome

A large number of women have confessed to wanting to experiment with sex with multiple partners. This includes threesomes, foursome, or any other type of sexual activity. Although this is something that most women will never admit to, it is one of their most popular fantasies. Women, in particular, love to dream of having sex with multiple partners at the same time, as part of some kind of experimentation or fun. A threesome or an "orgy" can be a sensual concept that women often imagine.

The term "threesomes", "ficsomes," "sortsomes," and "masksomes" give a new meaning to sex, which may explain why 57 percent of women have dreamed of these ambitious encounters. However, they may go better in a fantasy than they do in real life. For instance, in a fantasy, no one has to feel embarrassed or unsure of what to do.

In the largest ever study of sexual fantasies, the threesome fantasy emerged as the most popular. If you are in a relationship and would like to explore the idea of a threesome, it is important to consult with your partner. However, sexual fantasies should be approached with caution, as trust issues, jealous tendencies, or insecurities may lead to a relationship nightmare.

The majority of men enjoy being pampered by two women who adore them at the same time. In the same situation, women also dream of having two men on their bodies. Some desire a more intimate erotic experience, while others prefer porn-style sex. The most interesting statement regarding two men was that one penetrates the woman while the other licks her clitoris. This may seem impossible, but it is still interesting. Other good examples include two men performing cunnilingus at the same time, or one man performing oral sex while the second man licks her breasts. This goes on for hours, by the way.

Another woman was talking about how she wanted to be dirty and do all sorts of things that would be considered dirty by most women. She wanted to be penetrated through the anus and vagina, she wanted the guys to shoot all over her. And the craziest part? She wanted to be covered up with a blindfold.

Group Sex

If you imagine a roomful of bodies entangled in sexual activities with you in the midst, then you're not alone. This fantasy has a strong primal, animalistic flavour that is highly attractive to most women.

Rough sex

Women love the idea of rough sex where their partner can control them in bed and even include whips and chains to make it all exciting. Some women even like to think about BDSM i.e bondage play with machoism and sadism induced in it. Sometimes the idea of being submissive arouses women a lot.

Sometimes known as rape fantasy, this particular desire is not necessarily what you think. How many spicy hot movie scenes have you enjoyed in which the man pushed the woman up against the wall, forcing a kiss upon her? It's certainly a turning point for some women when they think about the man who bursts into so much desire.

While most women would agree that they desire to have a master, their roles in the scenario are different. Whereas some women said they'd give in to their master's demands, others answered by saying they wouldn't comply with his orders and would defy them.

Just keep in mind a fantasy is not always a true reflection of what women desire in real life.

Enjoying a romp in public

If you've ever had sex in someone's home, you know how the excitement of being caught can make it seem even more exciting. And according to research, almost half of women dream of having sex in public places. Sex in public or semi-public places has been around for a while, and it's usually done in a dark alley, public bathroom, or movie theater. But if you're caught by an unconsenting adult or kid, you could get in a lot of trouble. It's best to do it on a private roof or your own property - just pretend it's Central Park!

What makes this fantasy hot is the possibility of being caught having sex. This is a hot fantasy especially for adrenaline addicts who love the rush of adrenaline and the thrill of a challenge.

Whether it is sex under the blanket in first class of an airplane, sex under the table between courses in a Michelin Star restaurant, or sex in the bathroom at a party where there is a high level of etiquette and guests who would discover you if you were caught, sex in public places are what women dream about.

If this is a favorite fantasy for women, they may also dream of sex in the corners of a crowded metro or in a parked car during lunch at work. Sex in public places is not only the most popular fantasy for women, but it is also the most common fantasy for women to be sexually assaulted in real life.

Mixing pain with pleasure

Spanking, biting, and dripping hot wax are all elements of foreplay, which builds anticipation and pleasure to even higher levels before the main event. If there's anything women want, it's to control a man like no other. It was quite interesting to see the new ideas generated by this topic, of course. They included: spanking him, ordering him to perform certain sexual acts, making him beg for what he wants and having him suck on their stiletto heels or some other phallic object.

Dominant or rough sex

How many times have you been in a relationship with a shy, all too sweet looking girl and looked at her delicately? What you don't realize is that during your sessions with her, she's trying to tie you up, and vice versa. For some women, being dominated adds sexual pleasure. In fact, being dominated sexually is a chronically sexy fantasy for nearly 65 percent of women. Don't get us wrong, fantasies about being dominated don't mean you're weak or inferior to your partner. In fact, there's a broad range of fantasy scenarios to choose from. You can imagine anything from a trusted partner holding your wrists down while they kiss you to extreme BDSM that involves pain, humiliation or anything else your kinky little heart desires.

Fantasies of being in control in the bedroom are also quite common 47% of people who identify as women admit to having had this fantasy. It can be incredibly hot to call the shots during sex, especially in a culture that systematically tries to strip minority groups of their power both in and out of the bedroom.

Whether it's something as simple as a necktie, or more extreme bondage involving ropes, cuffs or under the bed restraints, many people find the idea of being tied up (or tied down) to be incredibly erotic. Being tied up makes you vulnerable to your partner's advances, whether they are pleasurable, painful or a combination of the two.

The blindfold is a simple way to explore this avenue. Wearing one keeps you blissfully unaware of what your partner is about to do to you and putting one on someone else helps you maintain your control and mystique.

Rough sex is a sexual act that is aggressive, animalistic, and perhaps somewhat violent. It is often depicted as more passionate than other kinds of sex, but can also be associated with unhealthy abusive sex. Although rough isn't inherently dangerous or abusive.

Taboo sex

This might come as a shock to you, but women have a tendency to think about taboo sex a lot. They think about all the things that are not allowed in the bedroom, and this makes them excited. People think a lot more about what they are not allowed to do in sex than what they are allowed to do. This is why it is said that forbidden sex is the most watched genre in porn.

One study found that both oral and vaginal sex were the top sexual fantasies. Although oral is not as "unconventional" as vaginal sex, it can have a kinkier dynamic, such as learning to squirt, that makes it different from activities traditionally thought of as "consensual" (e.g., penis in vagina).

Oral sex can sometimes be seen as a subservient service, or as a dominant act that takes what belongs to you. On the other hand, oral can make you feel pampered, like a princess on her throne, or ravaged. Whichever way you look at it, it's no secret that many people find oral sexy.

Lots of people enjoy anal sex just for the sheer pleasure of it, but there are a lot of taboos that come with it. It's dirty, it's something only bad girls do, and so on. You don't have to live with these old-school judgments in your everyday life to experience some of the hotness that comes with anal sex. For those who are new to anal, it's important to relax, talk to each other, and use lots of lube.

While it may be a problem in the real world, being the pet of the professor is a popular idea, even if you have been out of college for a long time. Professors are usually people we admire. They are smart, well-mannered, and successful. Oh, and don't forget the tweed jacket with elbow patches.

The idea of sex with a professor, or anyone in a power position (like a boss), can feel not only thrilling, but like you're getting away with something. In your sex fantasy, you are.

This is another one of those "taboo" topics, but it's a common one. Older women aren't "supposed" to want their pool boy who's 21, but it's understandable why they would. Even if it's not true, people think that someone younger is more sexually active than someone older, and that they have a new sense of optimism that comes with age and heartbreaks. Being with someone who has a great, young body and energy, and who might not have the same experience as you, is what makes it so amazing. Of course, this fantasy should only be explored with consenting adults.

On the other hand, there are a lot of people who fantasize about being with someone old and wise because they're capable of teaching you so much. They might look at you patronizingly and call you "sweetheart," or their eyes might fill with gratitude and incredulity at their luck for getting to bang a hot young thing like you, both of which can be turn-ons.

In this day and age of self-assured women, it's no surprise that many of them dream of having an audience while performing sexual acts with their partner. I think the idea of having someone else be excited by what they're doing gives them a sense of power. Showing off is so sexy! You might dream of stripping for your partner, starring in a porno movie, or even masturbating in front of an audience. Why not? It's sexy to feel sexy! Just make sure if your exhibitionism involves going online, you're doing it safely. In this case, not only do you get to enjoy sex with your partner, but you also get to enjoy having someone else (or a few people?) be excited by watching you in action.

It can also be a huge turnabout to watch someone else's getting it on. Sometimes, for many women, the sight of someone else taking it on can turn out to be a huge attraction. Passively being part of an orgy that allows this, or just peaking at a couple who are at it the possibilities are endless!

Whether it's the thrill of being caught or the thrill of seeing others at their most vulnerable and private, there's nothing wrong with the thrill. The thrill of hooking up in a public space, where there's always the possibility of being caught, is no different. And while most of us don't actually want to be caught with our trousers between our legs in the cold meats department at Sainsbury's, we can dream.

Having sex with total strangers

The concept of sex with a complete stranger is sexy, daring and exciting. Many women dream of meeting a mysterious man and going to a no-name motel to have wild, uninhibited sex with him. Some women feel like they can only have sex with strangers because they don't think they'll be judged. Almost 50 percent of women said they fantasize about sex with someone they don't know. The impersonal nature of the stranger fantasy may also mean you're trying to distance yourself from something that doesn't have anything to do with your relationship. A common fantasy involves sudden sex with someone you don't know. It's potentially sexy to think that someone could be so attracted to you without knowing who you are. You can safely indulge in this fantasy at ethical consenting sex parties, and when it's over, you can put on your clothes and go home.

Women may claim that they do not know you intimately enough to sleep with you, however, the truth is that many women enjoy the freedom of sex with a stranger. Sex with a stranger implies that there is no past and no future, which is liberating for women. Women believe that they are capable of doing anything and having anything done to them, without the burden of guilt that ensues from those uncomfortable moments when you see the same person the next day, next week, next month or year later. The fantasy is that you will never see this person again, so the only thing that matters is that you do not have to worry about what your friends think of you or what your friends would think of you if pillow talk turns into whisper down the lane sex. Women fantasize about the freedom that sex with a stranger offers because the possibilities are limitless and the privacy is akin to a cone of silence.

Sex with someone you know

There are some people she shouldn't be thinking about having sex with, like her best friend's husband, her husband's brother, or the guy who just dropped off her package. But she just can't help herself. It's these guys who are nice and safe to her, and who don't show up in her sexual fantasies because they're so familiar, that make them the object of her fantasies. Sixty six percent of women have fantasies about having sex with random people. So if your boss, friend's husband, or smokin' neighbor shows up in your fantasies, don't panic. It's because they regularly appear in your real life that you fantasize about them. They're safe and familiar, but at the same time they're strangers, and while she's probably wondering what sex with them would be like in real life, she's answering that question for herself.

Fantasies about someone else are not unusual. Think of it this way: She's helping herself climax, which means she values having good orgasmic sex with you. Thoughts are not realities; you're the one she wants inside her.

Having sex with other women

Sex with a woman, is a fantasy that's on most women's sexual bucket lists. And in spite of gender fluidity being all the rage, this one is still taboo enough in most areas to inspire great sexual fantasies. So dreaming of a little same-sex action may be more about that liberation than sexual orientation or it could be about both.

According to a study by Lehmiller, 59 percent of women admitted to fantasizing about sex with their closest friends or the women they work with. However, if you have always identified as a heterosexual, a sexual dream about a woman does not necessarily mean that you are no longer attracted to men.

lesbian sex tends to focus on the things that actually get most women off: oral sex, fingering, and other clit-focused activities. Because of this, straight women fantasizing about being with other women is really quite common, as is straight women preferring lesbian porn to get off.

Yes, virtually every woman wants or will share her body with another woman.

Being Masturbated

The 2014 Quebec study found that 72% of people fantasize about being masturbated by their partner, and 68% fantasize about being "masturbated" by someone they don't know. The journal of sexual medicine also found that people fantasize a lot about being "masturbated" by people they don't know very well. Basically, when you say "masturbate," you mean to stimulate your own genitals, but when you say "masturbate" you mean to stimulate someone else's genitals, which, in this case, would be giving someone else a handjob, or even fingerbanging.

Making love in a romantic location

A whopping 85% of women want to have sex on a secluded beach, a secluded pool, a secluded creek, a secluded river, a secluded forest, a secluded mountain, a secluded desert, a secluded ocean, a secluded volcano, a secluded lake, a secluded mountainside, and a secluded ocean.Women don't just love romantic cliches that are slightly spicy. Women fantasize about sex around themselves. Having sex in a 5 star hotel with fluffy sheets on an oversize bed, with chilled champagne and juicy strawberries delivered to your room from room service, is the beginning of the most common sex fantasy that women have. The bearskin rug at the fireplace is the second time they do it. The secluded fireplace is the third time they do it in the secluded shower. The secluded rain shower with sprays on the sides is the third time in the secluded rain shower. If you back up the fantasy, they meet in an elegant hotel bar, sipping a martini while having a sex stare down that creates the gilt encrusted elevator. This is not a story for kids.

Romance

Romantic sex is different than many fantasies because there is no specified definition what is romantic for one person may differ for another. When a man tries to bring romance into sex, women love it. A survey shows that 63 percent of women want to be kissed more. When deep kissing only happens in foreplay, you lose the benefits of those great makeout sessions of your early days.

"Happy ending" massages are a popular search term on porn sites, especially for women. It may be that the relaxation and slow, calming movements prep your body and mind for heights of arousal.

Infidelity

You can be 100% content with your life and still find the thought of cheating on your partner arousing. Women may avoid cheating on their partners due to the taboo and shame associated with it. However, infidelity is the least discussed but the most popular fantasy among women. You may love your partner but the thought of getting caught only makes it more exciting!

Sex in an unusual location

If you're tired of doing the same boring sex acts over and over again, why not try something a bit different? Hotels, clubs, or even the kitchen can get your imagination going. If you want to give it a try, why not warm up the couch next time you're with your partner or watch a movie? Or even jump in the shower with them and see what happens.

Sex with a celebrity

Some 52% of women reported having had this fantasy. There is no shame in whipping out your go-to fantasy next time you're masturbating.

Role play

If you're having trouble unleashing your inner sex goddess, sometimes it's helpful to imagine yourself in a certain role. Does a nurse and patient scenario excite you? What about a boss and secretary scenario? The possibilities are practically endless.

More than half of women and a third of men say they fantasize about having sex with their colleagues in the office. If you want to keep your job, play out your fantasy with your partner. Put on your work clothes, pretend you're sitting at your desk and let your partner tell you what it's like to work extra hours. If you're a nurse who wants to get your partner excited, put on a naughty nurse's outfit and show off your sexy side by checking out your partner's body from top to bottom. Cuffing could be a good way to keep them in place, followed by a body search and a punishment to match the crime.

Cosplay

Cosplay is similar to role play in that it's about dressing up in a certain outfit. Burdett explains that cosplay is about letting your imagination go to different places, and costumes are a great way to do that. You might feel a bit foxier in a costume you borrowed from someone else.

Sex with an ex-boyfriend

Even though going down this path can sometimes lead to emotional distress, it's so exciting to think of a man who understands your body so well, and who gives you pleasure in ways you can't forget. This type of fantasy is often about nostalgia for a past time or simply some fond memories of hot sessions.

The exchange of money

The concept of a paid sex fantasy involves the exploration of both dominance and subservience, both of which are attractive to many individuals. It is the stigma associated with sex work which makes this fantasy even more attractive. Whether it is the sight of men thrusting 20 Dollars notes into a woman's vagina or the direct exchange of monetary exchange for sexual gratification, the act of becoming a sexual 'object' removes all emotional response from the act and, consequently, can be highly stimulating.

Strap me on, I'm going in

One of the most common fantasies that women have is to be the man for a night. I mean, literally. They want to be the man. They want to act like a man and dress like a man. And by "man" I mean "strap-on penis."

As it turns out, one woman did have the chance to do just that, and she didn't hesitate to take advantage of her friend's eagerness. "It was absolutely unbelievable," she said, "to be able to undress a guy and feel the kind of power that comes with being the dominant."

There's something incredibly sexy about a man being in a vulnerable place," said Carol. "The fact that we know we're in a position that men usually assume we are in is probably the biggest turn-on."

She might be into some wild stuff

Seven out of 10 women are eager to try something new. Many women said they were interested in trying rimming, as well as crazy, crazy wild positions.

The Personality Flip

Women fantasize about themselves during sex. If a woman is modest in real life, she has sexual fantasies about being domineering in bed. Women who dominate the board room frequently fantasize about being a maid or some other submissive character during sex. In real life, pressure is always present. A woman who has to be politically correct at work will have sex fantasies where she is a cheerleader or even a stripper, an escort or a prostitute during sex. A woman's sex fantasies where she's the opposite of her "day job" aren't just sexy, they're healing because they help the woman having those fantasies work through the disconnection between who she is and the part of herself that she wants to express but can't. She needs those fantasies.

Virginity Sex

Virginity is an iconic concept. It inspires great art in all genres and mediums. It has been the subject of battles to the death over a woman's virginity. However, while the act of losing one's virginity is epic, for the vast majority of women, the actual experience of losing it is not. It is frightening, anxiety-ridden, messy, and painful. It is not a good time. But if she had known what she now knows, it would have been a wonderful time. This is where the fantasies begin. A woman can be a virgin inside her mind. This is where great sexual fantasies begin. Fulfilling a woman's fantasy of losing her virginity the way she wishes she could is a popular fantasy for women. Madonna's song wasn't a hit because it was about the music, it was about the concept. Women recreate this iconic moment, amplified by their current knowledge of their body and sex, which is why virginity is so popular. And it is not only about losing it, but taking it as well. The power of bringing a woman through her first time is intoxicating and sexy.

Sex With An Amazing Lover

About 10% of women have never experienced an orgasm. Up to a third of all women have difficulty achieving orgasm during sex. Approximately 80% of women cannot achieve orgasm during regular intercourse. There is so much bad, lazy, and boring sex out there. There are women who have been married for decades and don't even know what good sex is. They know it is out there, but they haven't experienced it themselves. Even if they can achieve an orgasm alone they have never had it and want to. That's why she fantasizes about having sex with the ultimate lover. He spends time with her. He romances her. He cares about her. He caresses her. He knows what to do. He slowly teases her with the best sex she has ever had. She doesn't have him in her life.

Sex Clubs And Swinging Parties

The idea of doing it at a party where everyone around you is having sex and they invite you to join in is pretty wild. The idea of having sex with more than one person is really primal, especially since it's all out there and if there's a door closed, it's easy to open it. This kind of fantasy allows women to break away from all the rules and be totally sexual and social. It's really basic and animalistic. Women have natural, pure sexual drives that get watered down when they're socialized, and these fantasies let them tap into those primal urges. In these fantasies, they either join in or leave to get into a better, more interesting sexual situation.

Takeaway

But guys, please remember that these are just ideas; don't read this and turn it into a reason to beat your wife up. The reason why fantasies are so popular is because most of them never come true. Have you heard any of them before? Or even better, have you even been a part of one? Women in the 21st century have taken their place in this hot and steamy world... and I'm pretty sure that's what it sounds like. Not all women want to talk about it, but it's clear that some of us don't hold back when it comes to talking about what it means to be comfortable with intimacy. Whether you do or don't make your fantasy real, it's always a good idea to practice safe sex.